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Knowing that you are worthy of respect, honesty, loyalty and love is critical to the self love process. Sometimes we forget to give these things to ourselves and rely on others to provide this to us. That can be a painful mistake because in order to truly feel loved, you must love yourself first. You must know that you are worthy of great things in your life and not tolerate anything that could be negative to your well being. You have to make an effort to demand these things for your own life before you allow someone else in. The hardest thing to do is to try to find yourself after losing yourself in a relationship. Sometimes it's just easier to work on you before you get serious with someone. Whatever route you take for your life, remember you are worthy of respect, loyalty, honesty and love. Be committed to loving yourself so that love can find you. Thank you, JDWILLIAMSCOACHING Learn More

To love your partner selflessly is a mindset. To love your partner selflessly doesn't mean lose yourself in your partner. It mean making sure that the decisions you make for your life are not effecting your partner in a negative way. It means making sure that there needs are being met and if they can't be, offering a solution to the problem. Selfless Love is treating your partner with respect, being loyal, and being honest with them. Selfless Love is realistic love. That means that what you are requesting from your partner can be provided to you without stress. Selfless Love sounds like it would be easy if you love someone, but it's not always that simple. It's hard to be selfless when you're mad at the other person, but that is the best time to be selfless. Issues happen all the time in relationships, but don't let issues cause a divide in your partnership. Selfless Love is possible, but only if you work on yourself daily. Selfless Love has less to do with your

Living a blameless life is a challenge to do because a lot of us do hold on to blame from our past. Self Blame from situations that have happened in our lives hunt you like a bad dream. Sometimes it can mess with your confidence and decision making for your present life. It's important to know that in life you can only control a small amount of these that happen on a daily basis. The rest of the uncontrollable things you just need to pray about. To live a blameless life you must learn to forgive yourself for the things you could not control. Sometimes that's other people, family or the world that causes you to blame yourself from the past. If you really think about it, how much of those things can you really control. My guess, none of them very well. Do yourself a a favor and let yourself off the hook for the things that happen that are out of your control. That's not saying that the blame is going to go away over night, but forgiving yourself is a start. The rest is going

No one ever said that changing your life was going to easy or fun. We you have this idea that you want to do more with your life, that's just the idea. How do you get there is the next question? The first step is making sure within yourself that this idea is truly what you want to do. If it is, then you need to hold on to that motivation because you're going to need it. The reason why most ideas, goals, and dreams don't turn into success stories is because the road to reach them gets too hard. Challenges start happening and you start letting the fear of the unknown inside your thoughts. It's okay to feel whatever this emotions are, but Don't Quit. You must tell yourself why you started down that path and remind yourself why you want it so bad. There are going to be days where you don't want to work on your change, but push yourself anyway. Remember the change you want to make for your life is for the betterment of your life. You have to believe in yourself even