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Conquer The Fear

The question is how do you overcome your fear to progress in your life? It's simple, take one step or a leap of faith. When it comes to overcoming fear, that fear is going to be there whether you take that step or not. If you want to progress in your life, you are not going to ignore the fear. You're going to embrace that fear, you going to conquer that fear by believing in GOD more. You're going conquer that fear by believing in yourself more and trusting your judgement. You have the power to control most things in your life. The things you can't control you should pray about it and push forward. Life is full of things that you can be afraid of, but don't let that fear stop you from becoming a better version of yourself. Thank you, jdwilliamscoaching Learn More

Beastmode

When you hear the term beastmode, You have wonder what that word means. The term beastmode means you are putting maximum effort to reach a goal. To be successful in your goals for your life, at some stage in your process, beastmode is going to have to come out. Success in life with any dream or goal will not be handed to you. You have to go after what you want with all your might. You have to want that goal more than you need sleep at some points. To be successful is one thing but to stay successful is something totally different. That same mindset that help you reach your goal has to be that same hungry to push you forward daily. To go beastmode on your goals for your life means you realize that sacrifices are going to have to be made for you to reach the next level. You just have to know at the end of the day that those sacrifices were worth it. Thank you, jdwilliamscoaching Learn More

Faces of Love

Some would say that love can come in many faces when dating and in relationships. When a person tells you that they love you, what does that love look like to them? Some people would say that love is a universal language, but men and women speak love differently. Most women are very expressive when it comes to showing affection, but most men are not in some ways. Some people may show love in the physical form by buying gifts, physical touch, or some other type of action. Some people may show love in an emotional form by expressing how they feel verbally to you frequently. There is also the other forms of what people say is love, but is actually emotional and physical abuse. Those types of situations are not love in any form and that should not be tolerated. Real love should not damage you emotionally or physically and make you feel like you're less than a person. People may say that love has many different faces, but the face you call love should make you feel safe. That love shoul

Protect and Serve

When you think of the words " to protect and serve" , the first thing that comes to mind is the police. Have you ever thought that to protect and serve could also describe your role in your relationship. To protect your partner, watch their back, investigate when needed and to put violators in check when they cross the line. To serve your partner, to make sure all their needs are met, to care about how they feel at all times, and to consider how your actions will affect them. The words to protect and serve, these days has more than one meaning if you really think about. From a relationship standpoint, your partner puts their trust in you to do the right thing is all interactions throughout your day and come home safely to them at night. Don't be too distracted by everything that's going on in the world today and allow yourself forget to protect and serve at home. Thank you, JDWILLIAMSCOACHING Learn More

The Crisis

2020 has been a year to remember for a lot of reasons and the year is far from over. Between the pandemic and everything else, there is a crisis going on within ourselves. The pandemic didn't only make us rethink our work lives, but our personal lives as well. This crisis has made a lot of people rethink their life and decisions that were made in the past. People are questioning every aspect of their lives from dating, relationships and marriage. Relationships and Marriages are being questioned. At this moment in history, your answers to those questions you're asking yourself will define your path forward. These questions you're asking yourself are normal in times of uncertainty. Sometimes when things are so unclear, we rely on our faith to push us forward. If you are dating at this moment, you have to be more careful than ever before. You have to follow a process, reinvent old processes or create new processes of your own to make sure that person is right for you. If you&#

The Process

What is your process for getting to know someone new? Is there one specific blueprint to use to ask all the right questions? Is there a way you can tell if the person is being genuine or not? Do you trust yourself to trust what the person is telling you? Those are all valid questions to ask yourself when you are dating and getting to know someone new. The biggest rule of thumb is asking non - surface level questions and being as specific as possible when asking questions to the other person. Sometimes it's easy to be attracted to different types of people because they are different from what you had before, but different does not always mean better. Trusting your process and being patient with giving too much of yourself out at one time is important. This is super important if you have been hurt in the past and still need time to heal from that. If you are still healing from past relationships, please allow yourself time to get over that baggage before you enter into a new relation

Your Choice

choice /CHois/ noun an act of selecting or making a decision when faced with two or more possibilities. When it comes to issues that arise in relationships, ask yourself this question? Who is your choice? Do you choose to believe you are right in the situation? Do you choose to be fair to the other person? Do you choose to hear what the other person is saying? These questions are important to ask yourself when it comes to really resolving issues and truly connecting with your partner. The biggest obstacle to a true connection is pride, being stubborn, being strong willed and always believing your opinion is more valid than the other persons. No one in a relationship wants or needs to feel unheard or unseen. The choice you have to make if you want to sustain a happy, long lasting relationship is choosing each other daily. Choose the other person feelings, value their opinion, respect their thoughts and welcome their presence in your life daily. In my opinion, the true keys to success in

The Unresolved Truth

In life, we go through some pretty tough things as individuals that effect the way we are in relationships with others. Those things from the past that are unresolved within ourselves can grow into a larger problem. If your issue is trust, for example, that issue can prevent you from trusting yourself and trusting others. If the person that you're with has done nothing to make you feel like you can't trust them, your past trust issues can be seen as unfair. Your current partner can help you work on that issue, but at the end of the day, our individual issues are as said, individual issues. As individuals, we must not wait to resolve issues from the past. With you working on yourself, sometimes your partner will not totally understand what you are going through. That's okay, but don't be too upset at them because it's not really for them to understand. It's up to them to support you in your journey to becoming a better version of yourself. Becoming better helps y

Why Cheat Part 2

When a person chooses to cheat on their partner, it's either for one or two reasons. They have communicated to you that something specific in the relationship needs to change and no action has been taken after an extended period of time. Usually, this time frame is years not months of repeated conversations about a specific topic of change. The second reason is some people are just selfish and choose not to think about the other person's feelings. It's more so about them and there needs not their partner's feelings. No matter what the reason for this act is, please don't expect to be accepted back with open arms after you have been caught. Cheating is one of those things that rarely come with a second chance to come back to the relationship. If you choose to take a person back, you should really do a self eval to see if that is what's best for you in the long run. When someone cheats, your trust, your heart, your everything is broken by them. That trust doesn

Know Your Worth

In relationships, knowing your worth has to be in the forefront of all your interactions with your partner. Each person equally respecting each other's differences is key to long term relationship success. Sometimes when individuals love hard in relationships, you tend to lose sight of yourself. Losing one's self is easy to do when your heart is involved more than your head. Knowing that you bring value to the relationship and receiving that validation back is so important for your emotional well-being. Relationships with that one person that makes you feel emotionally safe and physically secure can offer a feeling like none other. An emotional high that can blind you from any red flags that may be occuring around you. That's when knowing your worth comes in to play because realizing your worth will almost guarantee that you will remain respected and that you will always respect yourself. If you love hard in relationships, that is okay. Remember to love yourself first so th