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People Pleaser

Being a person that takes care of others is never a bad thing. However, from a relationship standpoint, it could be either a plus or a minus. The reason I say this is because a person has to have the right partner to reciprocate that feeling in return. There is Not a such thing as one person in the relationship totally cartering to the other unless that is decided before hand. If that turns into the expectation, that means that person wants a dictatorship. In a dictatorship, one person dictates and the other doesn't get much, if any, 'weigh in' on the decision made. When that starts happening, you start feeling like you are being used and not appreciated for the value you provide to the relationship. From a relationship perspective, everyone's opinion is valid and matters. It's called a relationship and you can't sustain a relationship without the other person participating. Otherwise, you could be 'single' for a lack of better word. In that ...

Mindset

Pushing yourself to have a next level mindset is critical to future success. Having a next level mind set will motivate you when times are good and when times get hard in life. Success does not come easy to anyone, so having a mindset that looks towards the future is beneficial. When you have this mindset, your drive, energy, walk, and talk has to match your mindset. Pushing yourself to be greater than you were yesterday must be a daily montra for yourself. Being consistent with this mindset will not be easy because there are so many different challenges in our lives on a daily basis. You have to create yourself a routine around your new mindset and hold tight to the change you have accomplished so far. If you do that and have faith, nothing can stop you from achieving your life's goals. Thank you JDWilliamsCoaching Learn More

The Test

When your on the road to becoming a better person and really start practicing self improvement, you will be tested. What I mean by tested is that people like your friends, family, co workers and strangers will test your resolve to you changing your life. For the most part, they will not do this on purpose, but it will still happen just the same. After that, the real fun will start, the situations in the world will start testing you. At that moment when you feel like everything and everyone is coming at you all at once, be fearless. You have to believe that you are stronger and more powerful than you know. That stuff you are experiencing is pushing you to your greatness. With faith in God and faith in your process to change your life, you will get there. You are closer to your breakthrough moment than you think.  Thank you  JDWilliamsCoachingandConsulting Click link below

Lover and Friend

At the end of the day, every man wants and needs that lover and friend. That person to talk to when times are hard, and that person that will ride, when you need them to. Having that lover and friend in your life gives you a peace of mind that most people would not understand. Every man needs to have that ride or die woman in there life to support them though struggles and successes, whether we admit it or not. What that person provides means more than money, more than statics, more than things, if you have the right person. A lover and friend is that half of yourself that you know you will miss when they are not there. That person that leaves a void that can not be filled by no one else but them. Most men wouldn't admit that the right lover and friend in your life is everything.  Thank you JdwilliamsCoaching Click this link

The Apology

In relationships, there are always plenty of things to apologize for on both sides of the table. No one's wrong doing is greater than the other person because" two wrongs don't make a right". Effectively Apologizing to your partner can mean the difference between a peaceful night sleep in your bed or a horrible night sleep on your couch. To apologize effectively you must first, Sincerely Acknowledge the fact that you did something wrong. Second, Give an explanation for the offense that you did to your partner. Third, Express how incredibly sorry you are for what you did to the other person. What that would look like is you demonstrating/expressing how bad or ashamed you feel for doing that action. This helps your partner understand your mistake. Lastly, You must make amends for the offense that was done by reassuring your partner that the offense will not happen again. At the end of the day, things do happen in a relationship but you have to be honest about fixing iss...

Change and Forgiveness in Relationship's

When it comes to change in a relationship, some people may view the other person changing as impossible. Especially, when there are communication barriers that are going on with in the relationship. I'm here to say that change is possible and you can have what you want out of your relationship if you communicate it. Effective communication isn't a one way street, it's a two way street. It's when one side talks openly, honestly and fairly. The other party listens openly and without judgement. Both parties must take turns hearing each other's needs and than coming up with serious action steps for improvement. Your relationship, as well as, your individual life can be changed if you put in the work, prayer, and be patience. " Knowing that God is the Judge of all, Jesus said if we have anything against anyone, we should forgive(Mark 11:25) - and then never stop forgiving(Matthew 18:22). Bitterness will poison and drain the vitality out of any relationship. So, when...

Self Love

Learning to love yourself in relationships sometimes gets lost in translation. Practicing self love daily keeps you strong and your relationship healthy. Self love should never be considered as being selfish. Everyone deserves a little me time with respect to your partner, of course. Creating an environment where both parties are able to get some self love is greatly needed. If you practice self love daily, you will see that your vibe will start changing, you become more positive, more relaxed, more loving and more willing to open up. Each of us should get to a point were you allow your partner to practice self love because the benefits will satisfy you and them. Grow together and enjoy each other. Thank you JDWilliamsCoaching