Coaching Corner

When you're looking for a life partner, is it possible to find that perfect match for you? I believe that it is if you consider that love is blind. Real love knows no boundaries, no race, no sex, and no physical type. That perfect match for you is that feeling you get inside of your soul that is genuine. It feels like you have a connection with that person that definitely is unlike anything you have ever experienced before with anyone. At first you're going to second guess yourself and say that these feelings aren't real. You're also going to think that this person is playing games with you. What you're going to have to realize is that sometimes your feelings, emotions, and thoughts can mislead you. It's okay for you to feel all those feelings in that moment when you have met someone unlike anyone else. The best advice you can give yourself in that moment is to breathe, focus, and embrace that moment. When you don't do those things you can potentially miss w...

What's your why? There are many reasons a person gets up in the morning to go work, school, workout and etc. What's your why? What is the main reason you get up and go hard everyday to meet your goals? That is a question that must be answered to continue to do whatever you're doing now. Knowing those reasons keep you motivated when you're sleepy, and don't want to do anything, when you're hurt or sore. It's what keeps you going when your sick and don't feel well. It's your why that gives you that year - round boost to push forward when others stop. Challenge yourself to know your why because knowing it helps you continue to be the best version of yourself daily. Thank you, JDWILLIAMSCOACHINGANDCONSULTING Thank you, JDWilliamsCoachingandConsulting

Living in a pro-active marriage means that both parties are actively seeking to improve the relationship and marriage daily. There is nothing like having a partner that is just as interested in you as you are in them. They see that there are realistic needs that you request and are actively trying to make those things happen for you. When problems happen in marriage, it is easy to look at the other person to solve the problem then to just work together on a solution. No matter what the issue is in marriage, what effects one person, effects both people eventually. That's why being pro-active about the other party's realistic needs is so super important. What I mean by realistic needs is that some things we request are more wants than needs. Wants tend to be things that can be worked on over a period of time but needs are things that need more immediate action or it could hurt the relationship. Have a conversation with yourself first to determine if what you requested is a want o...

From a relationship standpoint, each individual in the relationship has specific needs that have to be met for that person to feel satisfied in there relationship. Most times through conversation, these needs can be discussed in a relationship on a daily or weekly basis. The issue with those needs that are being discussed is if each person needs are realistic to achieve. Sometimes but not always, unrealistic expectations can come up in conversations that have to be compromised on. Compromise is the key word because without it communication can not happen successfully. Not everyone is going to agree on the needs and desires of the individual person there with. That's why compromise is so important because whether you agree or not, some type of solution has to happen to maintain the happiness of both parties. Thank you, JDWilliamsCoachingandConsulting Learn More

Who do you trust when you have trust issues? Do you trust yourself or do you trust the person you are with? Do you trust your family or do you trust your friends? Who do you trust is always going to be the questions until you start resolving those trust issues. Those types of issues don't go away unless you truly are ready. The next question would be how do you know when your ready? The answer is simple, you're ready when you notice that your trust issues have started to affect yourself or the one's you love around you. That's when you know you're ready to make a change in your life. Only you can recognize when you're ready to start the process of healing, so be patient with yourself. Just know that any issue in life has to be addressed eventually. Thank you, JDWilliamsCoachingandConsulting   Learn More

Today is the day to challenge the fear of being successful in your life and relationships. Success in any form is not going to be handed to you and there are going to be some tough times ahead. If you are pursuing anything of value, you have to be ready to challenge that fear of the unknown for the betterment of your life. In life, there are going to be feelings and emotions connected to every decision that you want to make for your life. Those feelings and emotions can cause fear to set in that can halt your progress forward. I want to encourage you to challenge the fear in each area of your life and realize that on the other side of that fear is success. Start by taking one step at a time because things don't change overnight. Success is possible if you want it more than you need to sleep. Thank you, Joshua Williams Learn More

The truth behind the lies could occur when someone says that there is nothing wrong after you have a major argument in your relationship. Sometimes there are unsaid things that are in relationships because one person says that they just don't want to hurt the other person by telling them the truth. What you fail to realize is you're causing them more hurt by holding back your feelings from them. Relationships work well when both parties openly talk to each other, even when you don't want to talk. That emotional connection with your partner survives on the communication you supply that emotional connection with your partner. Withholding that information can cause a person to assume how you really feel about them and the situations that occur in your relationship. Assumptions can't live in your relationship. They have no place there and have to be removed daily. The truth behind the lies happens when  you tell your partner a small truth, that isn't the complete truth ...