Whenever two individuals enter into a relationship or marriage no one ever tells you that your connection with each other has to be maintained. No one ever talks about why maintaining connection with each other on an emotional and physical is so critical. Everyone always talks about the things they want to do together, but no one every gets to the true meaning of why those things are important to the relationship. People say that the word love is a verb. People say that you choose who you want to love or give that love to, but love is fragile. Love fades just as quick as following in love with that special person can happen. So, when you talk about the goals of your relationship make sure to discuss how you as an individual will prioritize the connection both emotional and physical in your relationship. Life will not make prioritizing each other an easy thing on a daily or weekly basis. That means you have to be intentional about each other and your relationship success. To me that is the true definition of relationship goals that in turn increases the odds of relationship growth.
When you're stuck in the past mentally, it's really hard to plan a future for yourself. The past hurt, resentment, and anger just has a hold on your life. You feel stuck in the moments of the memories and triggers of your past that caused you pain. What you don't realize is that those emotions are what is preventing you from moving on in your life and relationship. Anytime you are in a situation where it reminds you of your past, those emotions are there waiting on you. You can't escape the haunting emotions of distrust, self- blame, and self - doubt. Those emotions have you locked in the cell of your mind and are preventing you from reaching your full potential. Well today is the official start of moving day for those thoughts and emotions. It's time to pack up your boxes of past hurt, pain, and resentment from past situations. Start putting your boxes of past emotions in the truck and label it Ship To Progress . It's time to no longer live in the emotions that...
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