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Knowing what you want

Knowing what you want in a potential mate is different for everybody. Knowing that thing that your looking for in a mate is very important. When dating life is simple, you see something you like in a person and you explore what that feeling is. If you don't like what you find, you don't have to deal with it. When you're looking for a life mate that comes in the stages dating,proposal and marriage. How you handle those stages has a direct effect on how your life will be with that person. The first stage is critical to finding out if that person is right for you. If you like a person right away, that's a sign that you see potential in this person being more than just a friend for you. The key is patience and listening. If you support them and are supported by them in the beginning, that builds a foundation for the future. Remember, the key is being consistent in your action by both parties. It is easy to be consistent in the beginning but harder to keep it going if you're not truly committed to the other person. Knowing what you want in the 3 stages of a relationship is important to building a lasting relationship. Try to avoid rushing into a situation you're not ready for and never try to change yourself for another person. If your mate is out there, you both will compliment each other's imperfections. 

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